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Sexual extortion is a serious online concern, especially for young people. But what exactly is it, and how can you support your child if they’re targeted?

What is sextortion? Sexual extortion or ‘sextortion’ is a form of blackmail that usually originates via a dating app or social networking site. It involves criminals using fake profiles to pose as someone charming and flirtatious to manipulate their targets into sharing nude images or videos of themselves. Then, they threaten to share the compromising material unless the person complies with their demands. These criminals are increasingly targeting people, especially young men. 

What can I do? As parents and carers, we encourage you to play an active role in your child’s online life. Having conversations, being curious and getting involved can help anticipate when they might need support and advice. If you’re unsure how to start conversations about these topics, read our advice on how to chat with them about sending nudes and sexting.

If your child has been targeted, reassure them that it is not their fault, there is help available, and you can help them make a report. These criminals are practised in the art of manipulation and know how to isolate, shame and corner children.  

Here’s what you and your child can do: 

1. Cease all communication with the blackmailer – Stop all contact and do not pay the blackmailer or provide any more intimate content. 
2. Seek additional support – If your child needs further support, they can contact Lifeline or Kids Helpline 24/7 for immediate assistance. 
3. Report the incident – If they’re under 18, report it to the Australian Centre to Counter Child Exploitation. If they’re over 18, report it to the platforms where the blackmailer contacted them. If their intimate image or video is shared, or the platform doesn't help, report it to eSafety. 

Thank you for your ongoing support of the College and your children.

Mrs Theresa Moore Miss Rebecca Toogood

Acting Pastoral Care & Wellbeing Coordinator